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The Art of Communicating

October 2nd, 2015

The biggest troubles we face in these modern times is how to communicate. Excellent communication skills will get you through anything in this life. It does not matter what it is. This is because the power to bring anyone to understand your point of view is the key to all success in this life.

The greatest successes are unfailingly great communicators in whatever they do.

So here are two fundamental techniques to get you to communicate better:

1. Be present.

So simple but so difficult. Come to the moment and give it all the attention you have. In doing so you summon all the powers of life that is you and bring these to bare on the issue at hand. Do now, not the past or the future. Being present  does two things for you. Firstly, it engages the person with whom you are communicating. It does so by the overwhelming power of your presence. And secondly it engages you. You are not absent minded. Such a dynamic setting in which both of you are present is the ideal conduit of the energies of life. It will allow your thoughts, feelings, and mental ruminations to come through for you without any artificial barriers.

2. Listen.

Listening is also a a two way street.What is so difficult when folks are communicating is the tendency to not listen. Being fully present is not enough. Empty yourself of your prejudgements of the situation at hand and open your ears, heart and mind. Doing so you are able to tap into the true energies of the one you are communicating with or to. You will be able therefore to discern what is to be known and what is not.

You do not have to master this in one go. Practice makes perfect. We learn by taking small steps. Practice these two techniques as often as you can, with time they will become second nature. There is much to be gained by the one who has mastered the secret art of the tongue.

Practice and you shall know.

Yours in total success

Hugues

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